Haha ok let Starsky handle it. In the end I will have to tho.

To me it's not a deal breaker, yet. But the biggest eye opener ever. I just had a change of heart. I feel relieved. At least I know exactly what's going on. And if that is the true self of my W, let it be so.

Also her D friend is very very D supportive. She has bad influence on her, all she talk about is sex and a TON of different guys. And that "the other side is so much better".
I don't need more information. No more snooping.


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15