I found great support here with you guys. I can't appreciate enough.


NEWS: I actually noticed when I snooped my wife's phone it backed up her whole phone on my computer.

So I actually went through the text of her and her best friend.
She shared everything with her.
And I just found out my W is completely MADLY in love with OM. It sounds very very serious.
I'm didn't tell her or whatsoever. I am glad I know exactly everything now and I can use that information to my advantage. I'm very ver very hurt right now, but I'm not going to overreact.

What should I do with this information??? She 100% clearly is in love with him and wants to divorce me ASAP to be with him. They didn't get physical yet for sure.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15