Back from a long hiatus. December was very busy, mainly in good ways. The holidays went off pretty well. Her family was here and acted like nothing was going on. Then my parents came, which was largely fine except for a little tension. They wanted to confront her and have a talk but didn't.
There hasn't been much change in our sitch. Her stated claim is that she wants to move out, but she still doesn't have a way to. Today she texted me at work saying she had plans. I told her I had a DJ gig. She got upset, and I told her that I was sorry for forgetting to tell her but that I need to pick up as many gigs as I can to pay for everything. That's when she dropped a bomb: her plans tonight involved doing "dominatrix work", which she said is her new plan to come up with the cash to move out. No other details were given. If I wasn't already crushed flat I'd be crushed. Anyone have insight on this? I talked with my best friend and he said to get more information about her safety without judging her.
Two weeks ago I was tidying up and picked up her coat and a bottle of prescription abortion tablets fell out, in her friends name. As far as I can tell she has not had a period since October.
Just worn out with this and needing to move on. Emotions are drained.
M: 33 W: 33 M: 9 T: 10 3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5 BD: 8/3/14 Living together