Lisa

I am curious, apart from being flattered (of course), why would you be invited?

If you stay away then is there a good way you can present this so that this creates an opportunity on another occasion? So that your bridges reamain intact.

A few threads ago, Dawn decided to go to her family party at thanksgiving because the family meant so much to her. She was glad she did and it was a huge breakthrough for her confidence.

You could learn a great deal about yourself if you do go, the best decision is that which gives the best eventual outcome. That best decision may not necessarily be avoidance, although that invokes difficult feelings which you will have to handle. However it may be too soon if OWs will be there, and counter productive.

Lisa consider this for the future.
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