I hear you and feel for you. I want more than anything to tell you to go ahead and talk to him. I feel for you and think you are one fantastic woman. I really do.
I still remember you saying that you just wanted to be everything for him. My wife told me that once and I never forgot. It really hit me that she WAS ALL IN.. Heart, mind and soul...
I get quiet sometimes. She is a bright woman. Very in tune with me. Loves to make me happy. Just like you do your huband. If I get quiet sometimes she wonders if she did something to make me mad. (I get quiet when I am mad too)(how's that for putting her under pressure to know what to do?)
She just moves back SLIGHTLY and does her own thing. It is amazing how I will then say something....THEN she will say.. You seemed quiet and lets me answer..
It wasn't you honey.(I have had to learn to tell her that so that she doesn't feel like it was her fault) I just am tired.. (heard that one T?)
She has STUDIED me to be in tune.. Figure him out. Figure out what works. Get in tune.
