"but right now I would rather be married than right. "
This has nothing to do with it. No one said that you had to be "right". He has to understand where his anger comes from or else you will always be at the brunt of it. I understand what happened in the past and you've seemed to be trying to correct it. That's very commendable. But his anger is not a result of your actions. He has control over that.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.