U... calm down. Wait till you get more info from the bank. Don't pressure her. You may just have to wait and watch what she does. You may just have to keep working to keep your PMA and your life going for your kids.
Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014