Hi friends, thanks so much for the feedback! I so appreciate it and you are all right.
I won't be going to the party. The reasons I had for attending were not great, although I do really like the hosts and was happy for the invitation. Honestly I was also surprised and flattered at the invitation because they are friends of my WAH. But I will likely feel awful no matter the outcome... if I go and am fabulous I still will find things to feel weird about. So I will find something else to do. Actually I already have!
Thanks again friends and hope you are all doing fantastic! Hugs, Lisa