Man, we are close. I'm sitting here thinking about my sitch. W said she wanted D before I confronted with OM, but just the other day she sent me an email asking what I needed for closure, so that's kind of the second time her saying she wants a D, so it's hitting me just like that. It's 3 months after the first mention. I feel your pain bud. I feel the same way, as much as I tried the 'move on' DB tactic, I just can't hold it up, she knows that I want an R, I've said it. but whatever the reason is still trapped in this lie she's in. I thought that maybe she would start to be honest prior to this and then I would know the real person I knew in my M there and this was actually her decision. I just don't understand, feeling for you in all of this. We've got a 1 year wait here in MD, so Im in the same boat.
Feeling for you, we'll get through this.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)