Serving by your values will definetely bring you a peaceful life, no doubts there. I've read somewhere about how a lot of our bad experiences stem from feeling like our values are being compromised and the internal conflict that goes with that. Which is why I think this situation feels so bad for us. I bet we all rank family among our top values. If we didn't, we'd be long gone.

Glad you got a positive response from your H.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014