Serving by your values will definetely bring you a peaceful life, no doubts there. I've read somewhere about how a lot of our bad experiences stem from feeling like our values are being compromised and the internal conflict that goes with that. Which is why I think this situation feels so bad for us. I bet we all rank family among our top values. If we didn't, we'd be long gone.
Glad you got a positive response from your H.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014