I can sympathize with you. Probably best to keep it simple as you posted and Bug suggested.
I'd highly suggest consulting with an attorney at the very least. For me, knowing my rights helped me out tremendously, because things can get ugly when emotions are involved.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
