Pregnant w H who doesnt want it and had affair

[Ahoy]

Oh, my H was affectionate with me too. It doesn't mean he's not seeing someone else and just stringing you along because he doesn't want to look like the bad guy and he still enjoys the attention you give him. But he is not looking out for you.
My H finally admitted his affair months down the line, after taking me to dinners and being friendly and affectionate. So please don't read too much into it. He might just want to keep you in line to keep you from being litigious.