That sounds like a great settlement, bdub. I hope my H will recognize that my proposal is generous and that, although I need to move back to my home state for my job and family support, that I want him to have as much time with our daughter as possible, and keep that connection strong. But I'm fearful that I might have to convert to divorce, since he seems to be resisting the move.
I definitely don't want to waste time with one-one-one sessions with my H. I'd rather just work through the lawyers because he messes with my brain too much. I think it will help us stay amicable in the long run if we don't try to hash it out unsupervised by legal guidance.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!