That sounds like a great settlement, bdub. I hope my H will recognize that my proposal is generous and that, although I need to move back to my home state for my job and family support, that I want him to have as much time with our daughter as possible, and keep that connection strong. But I'm fearful that I might have to convert to divorce, since he seems to be resisting the move.

I definitely don't want to waste time with one-one-one sessions with my H. I'd rather just work through the lawyers because he messes with my brain too much. I think it will help us stay amicable in the long run if we don't try to hash it out unsupervised by legal guidance.


M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!