Thanks people for the comments . It has given me a lot to think about for sure . Legal separation is the way I will go . It sounds better and makes better sense . I m thankful that I found this forum . Its literally been a life saver . Dawgy


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )