Thanks everyone. I'm sure it's obvious to all of you how much I still love her, but I really don't do anything to give her that impression. The furthest I've gone is to tell her I don't want to meet her because I need to move on. Other than that, it's been silence, business. We haven't seen each other in a month (1 minute) and we haven't sit down to talk in two months.

OK, I will DB this one too. You all seem very confident, including those that have been through this successfully. It won't be easy: I just had lunch with a friend who got divorced 4 years ago. She discovered later that when her xH sent her the D paper, he didn't really want to: it was to force her to react... Then again, he was not with an OW, so it's different. My WAW is in an A and I trust sandi2 that I don't know how WAW thinks.

I really don't understand the timing of this request. As she says herself (she's done her research), we can't be D until October 1st. Why get started mi-January?

M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.