Honestly, a lot of that sounds like me. I did not have to be the "parent" as a kid, although I did have to behave "like an adult" around age 11. That's when I started earning money with various jobs and feeling like I had to be in charge.
Interesting. I did google love avoidant and I do have intimacy issues. I don't feeling I had them in my first R, however, I feel like they came about later as I felt so hurt. I thought there must be something wrong with me. I wasn't thin enough. I wasn't pretty enough. My family wasn't "good" enough. And I certainly attract men who are very sensitive snd passionate until.......they get upset I'm so "closed off."
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
