I see you've been married for a short while....has your wife obtained her permanent resident card, green card and citizenship yet??? There seems to be an awful lot of immigrant brides divorcing after 3, 4 or 5 years of marriage.
Tough to fight for a marriage if she's been playing you, to a certain extent, this whole time. Often there is family pressure to divorce and then sponsor another non-citizen family member over to the US. The desperation to come here legally is tremendous. It's not always that they don't care about their husband's but family promises have been already made.
Could be a factor to consider but an indication you certainly need to see an attorney and make sure you are protected from her leaving with your children back to her homeland.
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!
