Originally Posted By: Complex
Is it actually ok to let my W know that she lost a lot of respect and all trust or should I just let it go and not even mention it?
She wants to be my friend, but I trust my friends, so she can't be my friend.

I definitely found myself in the "last resort" category. But I guess pretty much everyone in here finds himself in there.
Have to continue reading, hope there's some more good readings about the 'hopeless' cases


I think you can lightly tell her, your friends don't lie to you and mislead you like she does. Actually people have done it and they moved out of the friends category.

If your lover/spouse cannot be your friend... It's in a bad position.