I think quite a few of our partners like to cake-eat, lol. May not be any ML, could just mean having two R with opposite sex.
You are changing that by doing what you are doing. Let C lead the dance! I think once she finds out you may be slipping through her fingers, she just might change her mind and be a one cake gal, LOL!
Glad you are keeping busy, it's the only way to go! I just put a new faucet in the kitchen, I'm very proud of myself! No mountain is too high to climb, sometimes we have to find another way up instead!