I think you are lucky in some ways cause your W relationship with OW is over the top in some ways that I think it may blow over after this vacation.

Your W version of this OW is totally a fantasy and it seems unlikely that the OW is completely available to be in a relationship with a W from another country that has 3 kids. (Unless the OW is some kind of scam artist... you never know...)

I think you are right just keeping your cool about the vacation - don't let her see you sweat it.

Focus on yourself and your kids. 3 is definitely enough to keep you busy.

Do you have any hobbies?


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13