...and this is what I needed...not what I expected. Thank you Nettles. Bring the man cave over here and I am sure I would get more hit me in the head advice, replies.
and sheepishly and with a sinking feeling, I reply:
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Do you keep your commitments?
Yes at work. No at home: I flex the commitment based on the experience as I think my way is general better. Sometimes commitments are kept, but more over I do what I want.
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Previously, you wrote that H responds "to be happy" when asked what he wants. That doesn't seem to be a lesser thing, but a serious reason to consider D if H feels he can't be happy in the M.
You are right. Happiness is not a lesser thing...how can I be so dense.
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Have you asked H want it means "to be happy"? What does H's life look like for H to be happy?
I have asked and H cannot articulate what he wants.
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With the examples you gave in your post, did you respond to H with you 'reasons'?
...I did reason support most of the examples and for the ones I validated rather than rationalize I did not get a good response from him. So I just should have validated.
He is really really angry. I am seeing this in a different light. I have work to do. Are there still KLA in person groups?
