Without a doubt. She has refused to unfriend him on FB or block and delete him on her phone, saying she doesn't do that to her friends.
She even tries to spin it; tells me that she deliberately posts pics of her and I being close and affectionate, out with friends, etc. to show him that she's OK and moving on, and show him what he can't have. She tries to tell me that in her mind she knows he's just a friend and not an option to her.
My question always is, if he's not that important to you, then why do you feel the need to show him that you're over him? So if he's not an option, does that mean that I'm her default? What happens when the next "option" pops into her life?
Sounds like high-school ex-girlfriend behavior to me. Which just tells me that she's still not 100% into our marriage.
I get giving her time to grieve, but I'm having to seriously ask myself how much time to give, or even if it's worth it.
At least she's not talking about seeing him again after-hours when he comes into town next week.
Last edited by Rzrback; 01/15/1506:28 PM.
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
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