NAJ1964 -- Yes, that completely sound familiar... I was definitely blindsided by all of this and I do know that she is way ahead in terms of where she is emotionally with this.

BklynMom -- Yes, you read that correctly... a virgin... The whole situation would seem so unbelievable to me if I wasn't watching it/experiencing it all unfold right in my own home. What has happened here would make for a great movie script -- it's that crazy.


Me 48, Her 50
(Same-Sex Couple)
3 Children
Together: 9.5 years before BD
BD: Week of 10/27/14
ExW started EA w OW 9/2014
ExW married OW 12/2015