I have an opportunity to show grace, validation, and a 180.
H seems super stressed. He says he wants to take D for overnight Fri/Saturday day as scheduled. But things seem to be touch and go with his dad. He asked me, how flexible can I be? He said he's sorry that I have to take on so much responsibility re: D. He writes, "I don't know what to do."
He's probably expecting me to be annoyed, resentful, critical. I want to show him the opposite of that, but don't want to sound like I'm pursuing.