On the Kids - If you were apart of their lives and the parents are willing and if YOU want to; see them by all means! I have heard this from several sources including her C. I do love it when they see me and run up and give me a big hug.
the puppy - Are you attached to puppy, or are you using the excuse of seeing puppy in order to see C? I am attached to the puppy but I can also have the added benifit of maintaining a link to C. I will not make it obvious though.
Payroll - for now maybe let sleeping dogs lie. can move payroll to another service at any time if I need to.
the ps thing - I am starting to work on that. so "is it over" only time will tell. I am not going to tell her I think it is over but I am not going to push any to get back together - any move is up to her.
