I'm wondering if she wants me to resist, if she's checking whether I still love her. But that's me.

I just spoke to a local help line (coincidence: they were calling me to follow up) and the adviser noted that my W may indeed feel the need to be reassured that I'm still there, but that it doesn't mean she wants me.

I'll be thinking some more about my response, but I admit that I'm torn.

Starsky309: Yes, I will speak to an attorney before even meeting to talk about it. We have kids and she's an immigrant here.

Labug: Thanks for your feedback. If I say "Let's talk", then what are we going to talk about?

M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.