Mozza, haven't posted to you in along while, you were getting a lot of great support.

About the email, how about, "OK W, let's talk."

I believe less is more. Nothing you say right now is going to change her mind.

I know this must be difficult.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss