You know what ?? I do get it . i do understand that Im half to blame for the demise of my marriage Ive never said I wasnt .Ive even told the W that fact . However I really cannot accept any kind of responsibilty for what shes done . Shes , lied , cheated , stole , abused ,hmmm what else ? Anyway whatever . She coulda left if she was unhappy . She didnt need to be a cheater . Im alittle confused about this whole Divorce Busting anyway . I mean alot if not all posts to me seem to be directing blame onto the LBS . I simply cant accept that .If she hadnt have had the affair we would still be together and we could have exhausted all avenues before seperating . But oh no , she done it the evil way and i cant get past that . Sorry I believe Ive tried . For over a year . Im about me and my sons now . She will have to face the music . I pity her . I gave her a chance to save our family but she just played on my fear . Im done . Dawgy
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
