OK, Thanks Starsky and Mozza,

I still do not know if there is a OM but I have not initiated any contact for the last two nights and have not talked about the R or her plans for the last 3 to 4. She has reached out to me for the last two mornings and I have held her. I know the 80% rule but does that mean reject her 20% of the time?

Things seem good at home not discussing the R by the way...


W-43 H-41 M-19 T-21
Kids S-15 D-13 S-11
OM/EA/PA suspected 7/4/14
Talk of Seperation 7/5/14
Slept in same bed, held each other nightly until 2/1/15
W moved out 2/1/15
I am moving on