Great question Toots. That is the hard part. As noted earlier by others, I should be working on our R and reestablishing intimacy, not doing more DB actions. Ultimately, I need to focus more on me and getting back to the old Shodan. I am already creating space by the fact that I am traveling a good amount for work. I just need to be more strong, upbeat and confident. I need to get out more for me and reconnect with friends. I have made saving my M my big focus that I am not being me.
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed