Yes I do, Labug, and JCred's very first post (can't remember whose thread it was) is quite telling. I missed the deleted post on Maybell's thread, too. Which is to say it was drama on another thread that ruffled my feathers. The man cave is not a sincere attempt to talk about man stuff (that wouldn't bother me). It is an attempt to repair a damaged ego and prove a point. It's divisive. It's a trap. Buyers beware.
Claire, I don't think you are being selfish at all. Your ILs were a part of your life and you want to be there for them. That's a pretty natural reaction. I think it would be weirder if you didn't feel like that!
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
