One more thing, does everyone check post counts when someone starts posting here giving advice? I do. I also always look for threads they've created. If they haven't shared their story, I ask for it and if I don't get a response, I ignore them for the most part. IIRC, this is jcred's first thread created unless he was here under a different name.

Some people come here with a specific agenda based on who knows what but usually it's their unhappy back story.

Also people from other boards sometimes come here to set everyone straight about how weak DB is.

Yes, these are adults.

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