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ODGA

You know how these things work, you've been through it many times. It is the classic I'm getting too close I'm afraid so I've got to muck it all up hoping ODGA will clean it up and that will really show me he cares and is sticking with me.

Such BS but it is part of the deal. Walk away before you react out without thinking. You can recover from this.

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It is the classic I'm getting too close I'm afraid so I've got to muck it all up hoping ODGA will clean it up and that will really show me he cares and is sticking with me.



Oh my, good thought there. That IS a pattern.

Take good care of yourself, ODGA. Collect yourself and you'll figure out what to do next. (and when you figure it out, let me know, LOL)

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Odga,

I'd say you two got real close and you know the aliens! They run like heck!

You didn't blow it. Back off. And a suggestion; next time you are at her place and you get home, DON'T CALL! that would be a 180.

I would say it is time to back off and leave her alone. Just be polite and friendly. I think it is time for her to really miss you!

When they go back to being aliens after reconnecting, it is very hard on us. I know because I've been there!

Everything will be ok. Go back to the basics and start with a beginners mind! You have the DR book; go back and start reading it!

Hugs

Deb

Looks like she is going back in the tunnnel and going back though all the stages. So here we go again!


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OK odga!

Where in the blazes are you! I've been waiting for your morning coffee!

Don't throw my day off now! LMOA!

Not having a pity-party are you? It's not like you! And I won't let you!

Deb


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Hey ODGA,
How is everything? Im sure there are some positives in your life going on! Tell us how the past few days were. Anything new in your life? Be strong! We all have our days, but we gotta be strong.


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Good Morning Odga,

Zoo isn't letting me leave so you can't leave either!! Besides I'm going to need all the support I can get to make it through this D and you have made that and put yourself back together!!!

Don't desert me now!!!


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Hi Pam

I am still lurking some - will post from time to time but right now I am dark and nothing new to post


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Odga,

Just post anything~ I went flying, I feel out of bed...LOL.
Glad to see you post.

Deb


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Hi Deb -

OK - OK - I wll post something just for you - I did go flying yesterday.


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Well, how did it go?


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