SO finally after 2 years he wished me a Happy Anniversary.. Things are moving slowly and steadily.
Though the vacation was not at all that i hoped for.. We pretty much did our own thing..
I had completely stopped LM all this while. After we get back the stress is unbearable as I had great expectations from this vacation on account of the planning.
Early one morning he is out for his run. He is late and I needed to speak with him. I call and his phone is busy for the next 10 min.
When he calls back i lose it and snap.
later in the afternoon he keeps sending me silly irrelevent messages.
I text him back saying i need to talk with him. He calls back back saying go ahead.
I tell him I am upset about his phone being busy at odd hours and the fact that he didn't return the call.
He says that he talks to friends as he dosent get time later on and that there is nothing to it and that rarely happens.
Regarding us he says all i will say look at us 2 years back and compare it to right now.
HE says ' My head was all fogged up and i couldn't think clearly'. So lets take this slowly.. if u want let us go for counseling.
Post that my niece's divorce has gone through and had had a situation with my S. So life's been so busy . WE did manage a weekend holiday.
i always wondered even if we do make it how fractured and awkward our conversations would be though oddly things move to very bad to pretty OK very swiftly.
Peace and Happiness to you,
hoper me-40,H41 M-15 S-6 Looks like MLC,living together
