Hold on, it's quite the ride but at least your finances are separate thankfully. Keep yourself safe and protect yourself from any STD's, icky I know but so common with the infidelity crowd.
I called her Mom, her sister, her aunt, my mom, my brother and all of our friends. I don't know if it did any good but I felt a lot better about it. Did it push her further into the Affair, I don't know. The Board will be divided on that issue.
Can you make the mortgage/rent and other expenses without her contributions? My wife walked away from our mortgage and left me holding the bag of course. That is a different story however, more on that later.
My wife is in month 4 of her A and I don't know how long it will last. Did I mention that affair partner is married and has two little kids and lives in another city, about 600 miles away? Right.... really sustainable..... The AP still lives with her wife (for financial reasons only of course). So my wife gave up a full time family and wife to be a part time side dish to someone who is already married with two little kids. OMG. The craziness is baffling.
