Thanks DaddyLongShanks. Short, direct and to the point. Always good advice. I guess we'll see what time will tell. Dressing clean and looking sharp. CHECK + DONE!
On another note, W called me today, saying (she) wanted to be able to talk to our D (2.5) on my nights, before D goes to bed. I told the W, 'not sure how I feel about that' because it might be confusing to our D, and also my time with her is my time and her time with her is her time. She abruptly ended the conversation with a 'fine' and 'forget it'.
Spoke to a long-time close friend (one of the folks in what I consider my close support network) and he agreed with how I handled it. He went through the exact same situation with his (now D and re-married WAW) about three years ago, so he knows what he's talking about in regards to family, etc. Of course, all people are different so we both agree his situation is probably different than mine, as far as WAWs go, because all women are different.
So, any feedback for how I handled to 'phone call' request from the W today? Was totally calm and collected during the talk and continue to push forward in 180 mode.
Standing by!
Thanks, as always.
M: 44 W: 35 D: 2.5 M +5 | T 10 OM + Affair admitted 11/11/14 Separated 11/27/14
Do it for yourself. Do a lot four yourself. Indulge.
