Throw some thing out there. What are some of things you think you need right off the top of your head?
So, idk, but hers things that are what upsets me the most, in no particular order....
- I had no chance to work on the R, W was deceptive for a long time and lulled MCS into thinking things were okay
- I'm angry that things that W blamed about our M and me over the last year were things that were actual the things causing her A to be more difficult.
I asked her to not be in the phone as much (MCS controlling) I suggested she go into work on her days off, if she was overwhelmed with stuff to do (MCS not respecting her Indiv. Time) she told me I tracked her on the find my iPhone (MCS controlling) Upset she only went out with her friends by herself 2-3x per month (MCS controlling)
-I feel I've let my kids down in keeping our M together
-I'm hurt that she didn't feel she could tell me about any of her struggles
- I don't trust her about most stuff right now
- She's lied and deceived me for over a year
- she used me to justify her A, saying I pushed her into it
- she used me to justify her Internet chats, saying I commented to her around that time that our intimacy had improved
- I feel hurt that she is shunning the people that love her and replacing them with people that are using her
- I'm angry she's identified it, yet still continues to harm another family
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
