So, have some more time to post now. A couple things that I learned today, probably one of my best counseling sessions

1) As you guys said here, IC put it in a different light, however they are both the same thing I'm struggling with. MCS is having trouble separating out our R and our roles as Parents. It's true.

2) happy with MCS that he is starting to express anger and also realizing that MCS had very little to do with the sitch and how it transpired.

3) That MCS catering to her emotionally is getting MCS nowhere (from a parenting perspective) and MCS has been doing that to try and hold onto our R

4) W feels M is over, but MCS doesn't

5) W is not acting mature about her decisions, but MCS can't force her to act that way with trying to apply logic and common sense

6) MCS is still trying to trivialize or explain away W's actions in order to protect himself that M is over right now

7) MCS is trying to grip at straws that W is uncomfortable with her decision to leave the marriage

Last edited by MCS; 01/15/15 02:13 AM.
M:36 W:37
T: 15 M:11
S6 D5
BD: 8/10/14
IDLY: 8/12/14
S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids)
D Mentioned: 10/15/14
Confronted about OM: 10/15/14
EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13
She filed: 8/15 (not final)