no- W is not back in the house. In fact she hates me and wants nothing to do with me at all. She's told me she's in love with the OW and wants to be with her but for us to remain friends and continue being a happy family.
She has it all worked out that the AP will live with her family and care for her kids, and my WAW will care for our kids, one big happy family. They will continue to see each other monthly and everything will be hunky dory.
I can't see that happening as I don't want to be her friend. I will be civil and polite and do my best to interact with her in a limited but business like manner.
I filed for legal separation and am working that out. It's not divorce yet, but the next best thing.
I'm sad of course, but I had no other choice as she has so blatantly disrespected me and our family. Her lies and spew are just too much.
My goals are to work on
listening better living more in the moment and not focus so much on the future lighten up more and try to have more fun