I went to the library after work today. I got all excited about it, realizing I could pick out lots of new material to read.
Then a stray thought crossed my mind about what BF would think about it. He was always telling me I wasn't extroverted enough and that I was a buzz-kill because I prefer reading and quiet time to the millions of projects and bouncing from place to place, or whatever someone like him has going on.
Then I wondered when it was okay to make someone feel guilty over who they are. Just because YOU don't like something or YOU prefer to be more busy and outgoing doesn't mean someone else liking it is wrong or they're broken.
I REFUSE to let that d-bag's criticisms of me make me feel guilty about the things I love.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies