You are going to be okay. You really, truly are. Your marriage doesn't define you. If your marriage is saved and you reconcile, that is beyond awesome!! I wish you the best if you are reading this. But, if your WAS keeps walking, you will survive...and eventually, thrive IF you do the work on yourself.
That means owning your own stuff, no blaming the other person, no pointing fingers, no trying to control the other person, etc. It means doing the very hard work....which is looking WITHIN and fixing what you need to fix within yourself.
This is a journey I never wanted for myself, but I have been beyond blessed in how far my life has come since I first found these boards, a few years ago.
You are going to be okay. You are going to smile again and be happy again....but it's not free. You have to let go of the other person, stop blaming them, and do the work on YOURSELF.
You do this, and you won't regret it. <3 You, too, will rise from the ashes, better than ever before....
Dear Mods....can we consider adding a "like button"....I just love this quote!
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
