Its funny how a bunch of us are coming to this point about the same time. I can say today at a week out that it has been anti climatic. The best thing is that now the courts and lawyers our out of my life and nothing in regards to the D is unresolved. So it is a great weight off the shoulders. I did find that it is easier to manage expenses without her being involved and spending money before bills are paid on non essentials.
I also believe it is a fresh start. The old marriage is over. The spouse can either find something else to fixate on as the cause of the unhappiness or get over it at this point. Time will tell. It also seems to bring more clarity to continue my own changes as well as what she would have to do before I would ever consider a new marriage with her. So, it was not the results I initially wanted, but I believe there is a silver lining in it.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"
