What do i do now confront or just do the detaching thing? We have 3 kids here doing homework and i have a pissed attitude that I'm trying to hide from them, I'm sick of trying to save face for her like she's a good woman when she's not, going on12 years of marriage and I've been faithful, not falling for current temptation feeling betrayed and neglected while this ugly coward has his wife trying to make their marriage work and my wife, my wife is chasing him I guess I'm the fool for me and my family, stating months ago before she went back to work she would be stupid to go back to playing this game, i guess that means she is very stupid, why in the hell do we good faithful people gotta take this from no good people to try to keep the family going, keep my integrity by sticking to my vows before God and witnesses still faithful, still loving, that [censored], i never shared women in my past and im definitely not sharing my wife, i don't know what to do when i see her i might have to just leave for a while,i don't know