I know good and well she's not happy. She's always been up front about that. She's just always talked about her unhappiness in terms of her marriage.
She's stuck to no direct communication with OM, but she is stalking him on FB and keeping a picture (I caught her with it last weekend). The therapist was very clear that even passive things like that are interfering with her healing.
He'll be in town next week and they'll unavoidably see each other at work, at least for a little while. She has not brought up the subject of her seeing him after hours. If she wants to, it's her call, but I'll be looking for a new place to live immediately. I almost drew that line with the picture and FB issue, but I wasn't 100% sure I wanted to do that. Seeing him in person is obviously over the line.
I am closer. I've finally figured out that life goes on if we D. The incident where I came to her in pain a couple of nights ago and she made it all about her pain drove home the truth that she's not nearly as committed as she says.
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood
