NC is NC - if it hurts when you stab yourself with a pencil, then stop jabbing yourself with a pencil. It's tough and I have to resist doing it - I distract myself in that moment - I am always pleased later on that I did.
You are so right Lou. FB stalking is not healthy because it is just a conduit for propaganda in these situations. Besides all the cool kids are on instagram. FB is so yesterday.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou