Since then she's had more panic attacks and more spew. Depends on the day as to her state of mind
She has not gone through the withdrawals yet. She's still stalking OM on FB. She can't get over him as long as she's doing things like that. It's bad enough that she sees him sometimes at work.
I definitely believe you won't show her your confidence until you shed your fear of losing her. I think you may be getting closer.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!