Trying to save (not sure if broken or bent) p3

[SemperFi00]

Thanks for the comment Wet - and the gentle 2x4!

I usually have no problem (other areas other than W) with direct and find that it often works best.

I guess I was just trying not to throw the D in her face knowing that she really wants the new vehicle. Hmmm - maybe her reaction to that is part of letting her feel the impact of decisions she is making / has made?????

I think the lack of directness from me (especially in areas where she is likely to be disappointed) has been present before and is something I should look at more deeply. In those types of circumstances tend to feel like I have failed in some way or let her down..... interesting.......