Idk, I am gutted he has moved her in - that has really been a twist in the knife. Its so fast - I am so shocked.
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He said that he feels his dad is not really happy and getting irritated with her kids being around and to him they don't seem "that" happy
You know, I wouldn't be so upset about her moving in. I think that very well may hasten the demise of the relationship.
Think about it - your H has now moved from the Fantasyland of an illicit relationship, to the stark realities of step-parenting (let's face it, other people's kids are seldom as entertaining as your own, and these kids probably don't like the intrusion of this new guy into their lives).
He's gone from being ready to enjoy the "empty nest" and get back to adult interests, to being plunged back into homework and school and noise and mess and all the things that little kids entail. "Fantasy, meet reality". Reality is probably smacking him upside the head right about now.
