Hugs for you Lou. I wish I had answers or comfort. All I can say is that job is correct. You are a wonderful woman. It is obvious in the way you are handling the toughest of situations with grace, love and optimism.
Time for healing and reinvention creeps so slowly. I wish the process wasn't so painful but know you have lots and lots of support here. I suspect you have more support out in the real world too. Sometimes it is very hard for others to say the correct thing at a time when the situation is so irrational.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou