Hi Semper Fi, I think you suggested language to W is too unclear. What do think of being more direct, something along the lines of "our divorce papers stop us both from making significant purchases right now, until the divorce is complete."

I'm sorry I don't remember does your W have a lawyer? If so, then you can refer her to her lawyer to confirm this.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace